Derrick & Lauren – June 1, 2013

So I packed the car with all my sound gear, picked up my dry cleaning, gassed up the car, picked up my co-pilot/assistant Marissa (Dj extraordinaire) and began our trip to Hamden CT for what would end up being an awe inspiring evening of love, laughter, a super amazing couple that I can now call friends, and of course a packed dance floor ALL NIGHT LONG!

Derrick & Lauren Wood were my focus for June 1, 2013. Their wedding was at a beautiful venue called Cascade. The staff was so friendly and inviting. Rosa & Alexi were just so fantastic to work with. They made sure we had anything we needed and were so very flexible with our agenda. I’m a Jersey Dj, born and raised at the jersey shore; nobody does weddings like we do in Jersey lol. So needless to say, the Cascade for this particular evening was going to operate like a Jersey wedding, and they were very accommodating. You see, Lauren had seen me a few years before at another wedding, her brother Adams which was here at the shore. I guess I did a great job because she took my card and told me that evening that I would one day be her Dj for her wedding. Well the day finally arrived and I couldn’t be more flattered and honored to be back with her entire family along with Derrick’s for their wedding day!

And so the night began with Lauren and all her beautiful bridesmaids busting into the ballroom greeting me with tons of excitement! She is a blast to be around and I’m sure she is truly the life of any party. Derrick too, just an awesome guy! They both complement each other so well and you could instantly see the chemistry between them. I did not meet them directly during the planning process so this was my first time meeting Derrick in person. We met online 3 weeks prior on BrideLive which is our online office that allows us to meet with our couples face to face. This adds tons of convenience and is a great time saver! Back to the party, their guests made their way into the ballroom after cocktail hour and both Marissa and I could see instantly that this was going to be an awesome evening! Guests dancing to their seats is usually a good indicator of a jammer in the making lol and boy was it ever! Introductions began with a bang as we introduced all the parents, then the Bridal Party stormed in with T.I’s “Bring Em Out”, and finally Derrick & Lauren psyched everyone out by sneaking in from the upstairs balcony and coming down the oval staircase to JayZ’s “We Run This Town”. All the family and friends showered them with applause as their first dance to Adele’s “Make You Feel My Love” began.

We could not have asked for a more energetic and dance crazed crowd. The dance floor was packed from the beginning to the end of the night! Lauren was literally all over the room, talking, dancing, getting lifted up by all her friends, and it was just awesome to see both my bride & groom tearing up the dance floor! I was also able to add some LIVE music during dinner. I must say I wasn’t sure if my signature NY State of Mind would go over well in CT. Well, I was shocked to see half the room stand up in applause. I was totally flattered of course. It felt so good to know, as Lauren put it, she imported me over state lines to throw an unforgettable wedding evening for her and her new husband. I’m pretty sure Marissa and I made that happen. Mission Accomplished.

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Anna & Brian 4/28/13 – A Magical Night…

I am very happy every time I see that I will be working at The Palace in Somerset, my favorite place to work. Anna and Brian had a cool idea for introductions. It was a movie theme so the parents came out to the Star Wars theme, Wedding Party came out to the Indiana Jones theme, and then Anna and Brian came down the beautiful staircase to 2001 Space odyssey theme song. As soon as they hit the dance floor they wanted us to play Thunderstruck by ACDC as they walked through the arch.
Anna and Brian had Elite Video Productions to capture all the great moments and also had a PhotoBooth by Elite which is always a big hit. Fun party and great people. Anna picked out every song and her music list was perfect.  We started with a traditional Italian dance set and that broke the ice and set the party up for the rest of the night.  Another amazing night. Anna and Brian posted a very nice review on WeddingWire a week later saying that I provided her with a magical night.   Another big reason why I love this job.
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Kate & Mike 4/27/13 – “DJ’s Of The Year!”

Myself and Craig had an amazing time with this group. The wedding was at a place called The Stateroom in Ship Bottom which is a very cool place in LBI.
Cool vibe and the staff was great.  The staff at The Stateroom and the bride and groom, Kate and Mike, wanted to have all the courses and dinner out and done before we even opened up the dance floor which means we had a full 2 hours to dance straight through till the end. So we hit them with everything we had and wow did they dance! Not one slow song (bride and grooms request) and 99 percent of Kate and Mike’s guests were on the dance floor.  At one point we played Party Rock Anthem, Sexy and I Know It, Gangnam Style and then the Harlem Shake (all which were Kate’s requests) all in a row and the people lost their minds. The sweat that came off the guests dancing was pretty funny.
At the end of the night we handed out a ton of cards and the staff at the State Room took a bunch of cards too. It felt great when the staff said that was the best time we ever had working at a wedding. One waiter came up to us and said “wow, best DJ’s of the year!!”   About a week later Katie and Mike posted an awesome review on us on WeddingWire.
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Different Strokes for Different Folks

Normally my blogs are on the great weddings that I’ve had the absolute honor and privilege of entertaining at, but in this case, I’ve decided to expand a little further onto the spectrum of celebrations, to a 25th wedding anniversary. On Saturday, April 27th, I was able to help Jamie Okozko surprise her parents, Joanne and Lester, at the Galloping Hill Caterer’s Club, in Union. I had previously entertained at their friend’s 25th wedding anniversary back in September, and was looking forward to matching the high level of success from that party. I thought this would be a tall order, but because of the wide range of music requested, I catered to the “Different Strokes for Different Folks”, and this group was absolutely amazing. Jamie originally gave me a list of Top 40, Classic Rock, Oldies and Country. I was instructed to play country during dinner, and stick to the rest of the playlist the rest of the night. Let me say, Jamie knew what she was talking about when she said this. People were clapping to the beat as they rocked out to songs like “Toes” and “Chicken Fried” by Zac Brown Band as they enjoyed their meal. But once dinner was done, we got the party rolling hitting Classic Rock and Top 40 songs like “Shook Me All Night Long” by ACDC and “Party Rock Anthem” by LMFAO. After a short break in the action, the Swing and Lindy crowd made there presence known with classic hits like “In the Mood” by Glenn Miller Band. Not to be outdone, the Motown fans wanted some of the classics, like “Respect” by Aretha Franklin, “I Will Survive” by Gloria Gaynor and “We are Family” by Sister Sledge. I can go on and on with various requests that ran the musical gamut from hip hop, to big band and electronic dance music, but words truly cannot do the guests at this party justice. Everyone walked away satisfied and with a smile on their faces, and it was my pleasure to oblige. Behind all of this was the love shown between these two people who have found 25 years of marriage, and will undoubtedly find another 25 just as wonderful! Congratulations to Lester and Joanne Okozko!

4/19/13 – Keep the place standing!

I worked Kim and Scotts wedding at McLoone’s Pier House in Long Branch and Mike Walter, my “boss”, worked there the next day. The Thursday before he told me to keep the place standing so I did the best I could.  We had such a blast partying with Kim and Scott. There is nothing better than working a wedding when it’s your referral because everybody knows what to expect… a slammin party from me (haha).  Everyone danced from start to finish. Instead of the traditional sit down dinner, Kim and Scott wanted McLoone’s to set up cocktail stations around the room to keep open all night. This way people can eat when they want and dance when they want. No sitting down. We kept it upbeat most of the time with only a couple slow songs. The music Kim and Scott wanted was great. They loved the 80′s sing a long stuff and wanted a ton of old school club and hip hop. A bunch of people came up to us at the end of the night to grab business cards from us, so I hope to party with this group again soon.  So, Mike Walter, I think I kept the place standing for ya.

Jessica & Tristan – April 6. 2013

Small group in a big room. We were in the big room (Janine’s room) at the Crystal Point in Point Pleasant.  As always the wedding was perfect with Jeanine running the show and the staff doing an amazing job. It was a smaller wedding with a huge dance floor which sometimes can be a challenge, but not with this group. Jessica and Tristan’s guests were ready to party. Right from the start, before the party began, only the wedding party were hanging out in the room. We did a sound check and my assistant Rob Habermann played a TLC song.  Next thing you know, the members of the wedding party were dancing around and acting wild. That is always a great sign of a good party. That’s exactly what happened. The dance floor was packed all night with a huge mix of music. If there is one thing I know from doing this so many years is that if you have a Bride and Groom, along with their  wedding party, dancing all night, all the guests will join in on the fun.

Private Showcase Special Offers

Not only is the Private Showcase a great way see everything Elite has to offer we also offer some great money saving discounts exclusive to this showcase.

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Provided by Elite Images

 

Elite Entertainment - Many  of our DJs will be on hand to perform for you and answer any questions you may have.  Upon arriving, we’ll let you know exactly which DJs are available for your date!  You’ll receive a coupon that will be applied as a $50 credit to you package if you reserve any package with us at the show!  Deposits for DJ services vary depending on the package but typically range between $350-$600.

 

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Provide by Elite Digital Images

 

Elite Images - We’ll have sample albums available to view as well as a couple of our photographers present if you’d like to speak with them.  Our packages typically range from $1800 – $4800.  Discounts always apply for reserving photography with other Elite services, but for anyone who reserves with us at the show, we are also going to include a free Engagement Shoot (typically $250).  Deposits to reserve usually vary by package, but this Sunday the deposit for photography will be $500 regardless of the package you select.

Elite Video - A sample of our work will be shown at the beginning of the showcase. Our most common package is typically $2100 and will be available at the show for $1900 PLUS we are going to include a free 60 photo montage to be displayed on a loop at your event on a 27″ screen (on the gift table, place card table, etc.) if you reserve at the show.  Deposits for any video package will also be $500.

Elite Photo Booths - We’ll have one of our photo booths at the showcase for everyone to enjoy!  Our most popular package for weddings is usually $1150. For anyone that reserves at the showcase

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Provided by Elite Digital Images

Elite Upgrades - You’ll have a chance to check out some of our most popular upgrades including our plasma packages, uplighting, intelligent lighting and illuminated monogram (gobo).  Discounts may apply if reserving more than one upgrade.  Small deposits are taken for each upgrade (roughly 5% of upgrade cost) to reserve it.

Please give us a call or email us if you’d like detailed package information for any of our services before you arrive on Sunday!

April 16th Private Showcase

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These live shows are not only a great way to see and hear our work, but you get to meet the DJs too. I know every couple has a vision for their wedding, and your entertainment plays a huge role in making the vision a reality. By having the chance to meet the members of our staff you are able to build a rapport with us, and we are able to find out exactly what you are looking for.

Not only will you see the great staff of Elite Entertainers, but you will have a chance to view the work of our sister companies Elite Images and Elite Video. Plus all three companies offer discounts that are exclusive to Private Showcase attendees only. So whether you are looking for a simple One Person Package or a Mega Package with DJ, Photo, Video, Lighting, a Photo Booth the best way to see everything Elite has to offer is by attending a Private Showcase.

The date is Tuesday, April 16th and it will take place at the Sheraton in Eatontown, NJ. Doors will open at 7pm.  Come see our DJ staff  perform, check out our incredible lighting packages and you’ll even receive a special discount just for attending.  Reservations are required so call or email now to reserve your spot.

Jason and Lauren And Their “Theatrical” Wedding Celebration

At one point in the middle of Jason and Lauren‘s wedding, when the dance floor was jam packed and the energy in the room just couldn’t get any higher, I said on the microphone, “I love theater people!” The guests erupted in applause and when I made eye contact with Lauren she smiled from ear to ear.  This was a truly unbelievable celebration.

When I met with Jason and Lauren they had shared with me their love of theater. They are both involved in community productions and they also have a passion for all things theatrical, both live performances and movies.  In fact they asked me if I could do a mix for their cocktail hour of all Movie Themes and I happily obliged (’cause that’s how I roll).  And as the saying goes “Birds of a feather flock together,” so it only made sense that so many of their guests were “theater people” too. So when I blurted out “I love theater people” it was based simply on the fact that, in my experience, actors and people involved in the arts tend to cut loose more easily.  They are more apt to dance and enjoy themselves, especially early in the night.  Jason and Lauren’s family and friends were a perfect example of this.

One of the unique things that Jason and Lauren wanted to do was change the order of events in the beginning of the reception. After cocktail hour the “template” says to do bridal party introductions, followed by first dance, parents dances and then the toasts. This is the format we use at probably about 90% of our weddings.  Jason and Lauren wanted things a little different. They asked if I could get all their guests around the dance floor before I introduced them. Then, instead of going into their first dance could I play Hava Nagilah and lead their family and friends in The Hora?  Once again, I happily obliged (’cause as I mentioned, that’s how I roll).

This was actually an awesome way to start the celebration for Jason and Lauren. I think it set the tone for what would be a great dance party. It let the guests know right out of the gate that this was a festive occasion.

Jason and Lauren gave me very few requests and no restrictions (ie. there wasn’t anything they didn’t want to hear). As a wedding DJ it’s rare to get this much free rein over the programming and to be honest it put a little added pressure on me.  After all, if I couldn’t get people up I had no one to blame but myself. Thankfully, that was never a problem.  From the opening Hora through the last dance, whenever there wasn’t food being served Lauren and Jason had a full dance floor. A lot of that success can attributed to our newlyweds. Lauren and Jason were on the dance floor almost the entire night. And in my experience, having a bride and groom out on the dance floor is a sure fire way to get a lot of people up.

Besides the packed dance floor this was a fun evening for me because I got to work with a lot of cool people.  The wedding was held at Doolan’s in Spring Lake and Bob was the Maitre d’.   Bob and I go back to his days at The Old Mill Inn and it’s always fun to work with him.  Lauren and Jason had also put their full faith in the Elite family.  Besides booking me for the entertainment, they booked our photography company, Elite Digital Images, our video company, Elite Video Productions and they added on our uplighting and photo booth.  They were even nice enough to pose for a picture with the “Elite Crew”.

My thanks to Carrie from Elite Digital Images for providing me with these great shots:

 

Lauren Leading the Ladies in a Sing-Along

Lauren Leading the Ladies in a Sing-Along

Jason and the Boys Try to Match the Ladies

Yeah, it was that kind of night!

From Left to Right: Jon Z who worked the lights, that’s Nick from the Photo Booth hiding back there, David Friedman music mixer extraordinaire, MC Mike Walter, Lauren and Jason, Carrie from Elite Digital Images, Davide Fuoco with the Photo Booth and Chris Monaco from Elite Video Productions. What a team!

 

As I said this was truly an unbelievable celebration.  My congratulations to Jason and Lauren.  Here’s wishing you a lifetime of health and happiness.   Mazel Tov!

Amy & Wayne – February 23, 2013 at the Venetian

With Elite being located in Monmouth County and our home base in Red Bank, we’re very blessed because within 15 to 20 miles of our office there are 10 very high-quality banquet halls that we work at often and are their recommended entertainment. Sometimes when you see that you have a wedding coming up far away, like 90 minutes away, you might roll your eyes, get into your car and say oh I’m going to hate this ride… but not when you’re working at the Venetian.

The Venetian is one of the halls in New Jersey where you know the food is great the staff is on point the place is beautiful and it’s a great room to have a party. On February 23 of 2013 I have a great honor to DJ Amy & Wayne Lee’s at the Venetian Garfield and the party was nothing ordinary.

Wayne and Amy had us provide the multimedia for their event with two plasma screen and they had reserved our standard two-person package I got to work with one of our up-and-coming headliners on this event Craig Haberstroh as my music mixer

Amy and Wayne were the dream DJ client in the sense that they said Dominic here are our Spotlight dances and our first dance and have fun do your thing. The told me, all we want or people out on the dance floor  all night long. Guess what, that’s exactly what we did we had these people up and dancing basically right after they finished their first course all the way to the last song.

Tonights sound track consisted of everything from Frank Sinatra all the way to the other end of the musical spectrum where we were playing LMFAO and Lil Jon.

We have the dance floor popping early with great classic disco like I will survive and we are family later on in the night will remove this is the more current music like Thriftshop and even got a little down and dirty and pulled out turbulent

This event is what I call dynamite… not in the sense of it exploded or it was hot in the sense of we would’ve had to throw a stick of dynamite on the dance floor to get people off

Doug & Sarah 2-23-13 @ Double Tree

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This past Friday we kicked off Doug and Sarah’s wedding by providing music for their ceremony. The ceremony was beautiful, their musical choices were a little bit different which we love here at Elite. The bridal party keep down the aisle to Somewhere Over The Rainbow the bride used the traditional Here Comes The Bride and the recessional song was a great choice, I’m a Believer by Smash Mouth.

After the ceremony was over the girls from Elite Images (Carrie & Lynn) took a few more shots with the bride and groom while the guests made their way into the cocktail hour. Sarah and Doug had me put together a very cool cocktail mix that had some jams by Dave Matthews, Mumford and Sons, Van Morrison, and The Beatles just to name a few. After cocktails everyone moved into the ballroom and we began with the bridal party introductions.

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Provided by Elite Digital Images

The house was a rocking! Not only did we have great high-energy music choices for intros, the bride & groom also upgraded their package and had intelligent lighting plus two plasma screens. The intelligent lighting added some great color to the room and energy to the dance floor. The Intelligent lighting also helped highlight some special parts of the evening by spotlighting entrances, toasts, and of course the first dance. We also provided some great visuals with the flat screens by showing images of the day, music videos, and ambient backgrounds.
Now being in the industry as long as I have, I’ve seen my share of fails with best man toasts but Chris (our best man) had one of the best shows I’ve seen in my 15 years. Not only did he have some heartfelt words he also played the guitar while singing a self composed song and we helped him by incorporating the plasma screens. Chris made a little video and it actually was Conan O’Brien style where he did some voice overs and had a conversation with the bride and groom. Needless to say the crowd was in stitches.

Once we opened the dance floor we really put the event on autopilot because they just wanted to have fun. We played a little bit of everything that night from the 50s to current music. Check out the vid below and make sure you watch all the way through to see the bride share some kind words.

 

Victoria and Tom “Finally” get Married and Celebrate!

When I first sat down with Victoria and Tom to discuss details for their wedding (way back in October of 2012) I was immediately excited to DJ their wedding.  This is a couple that loves dance music, and especially some of the great disco songs that came out of the 70s and early 80s.  And not just the popular ones but some really great but obscure songs like Arpeggio’s “Love and Desire” ,  “I Haven’t Stopped Dancing Yet” by Gonzalez and The Trammps “That’s Where All The Happy People Go.”

Unfortunately for Vicky and Tom, their original wedding date had to be postponed due to Hurricane Sandy.  When Vicky called me with some dates that  worked for their banquet hall (The Molly Pitcher in Red Bank) I told her we could definitely accommodate any date because even if I wasn’t personally available one of my other DJs could do it.  But even as I said those words I was thinking, “I WANT TO DJ THIS EVENT!”  So I was very relieved when they picked a Saturday in February where I was available.

The delayed wedding gave us a chance to have some fun with their introductions.  Vicky and Tom had originally selected Barry White’ “First Last and Everything” to be introduced to but with the new date they changed it to Ce Ce Peniston’s “Finally.”   Before I introduced them for the first time as husband and wife I added said, “After a delay cause by Hurricane Sandy I can finally introduce to you…”

When I have a music list like Vicky and Tom’s I get a little anxious hoping that their guests respond to their songs.  I could tell by the attention to detail this couple had put into selecting the songs that they really love their music.  And they love to dance.  So as I prepped my music list and made some edits in advance of their wedding, I was secretly praying that their guests shared their passion.  I’m happy to say that everyone did.  From the first dance song of the night through to Donna Summer’s “Last Dance” (what else would you end a Disco-heavy night with?) the dance floor was jammed all night.  And nothing brings this DJ more joy than seeing a packed dance floor and knowing that my mixing and programming has something to do with it.

Besides getting the chance to play some awesome songs that I don’t often have the opportunity to spin, I loved Vicky and Tom’s wedding because of the people I worked with.  The Maitre d at The Molly Pitcher was a man named Cristian who I have worked with for many years (either at The Molly Pitcher or the Oyster Point).  Cristian is one of those uber-cool Maitre d’s who is great to work with.  He just makes everyone feel comfortable and at ease.  I also worked with a photographer named Anthony from Innovative Productions who was fun and easy to get along with.  Plus the Elite crew on site consisted of myself, my music mixer David Friedman and both Chris and Tom Monaco who were running the add-ons (Up-lighting and plasma TV).  Nothing ratchets up the pressure more than beat mixing with a Monaco in the room but I’m happy to say I rose to the occasion.

Vicky and Tom headed to Aruba this morning on their honeymoon but before they did Vicky sent me this text message:

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Nothing in my professional life, and I do mean nothing, compares with the feeling I get when I receive feedback like this from a bride and groom.  With my own wedding looming (is that the right word?) just 5 weeks away I understand the importance that couple’s place on everything going right that day.  I’m so thrilled that Vicky and Tom, after waiting all this extra time, are “finally” happily married.

Here are some photos Tom and Chris took for the zap shots that went up on the plasma screen.

Vicky having fun

Vicky having fun

Me mixing and apparently I had someone admiring my work

Me mixing and apparently I had someone admiring my work

David Friedman hard at work

David Friedman hard at work

Christina & Eddie 2-16-13

What a awesome night at one of our favorite places to work.  The Rosewood in Edison is always a great place with very good food and a friendly staff.
From beginning to end what a great wedding for Christina and Eddie.  Not only was Elite Entertainment there ready to party we also had Davide Fuoco from Elite Photo Booths there with all his energy and enthusiasm to add to the party. As a matter of fact when we played Cotton Eyed Joe he jumped on the dance floor to help show the dance (since I know it’s one of his favorite songs to dance to.)   On top of that we had the pleasure of working with John from Galis Photography, one of the nicest guys in the business.
The entire night was a blast. Myself and Rob Haberman rocked the crowd and danced non stop.  There were only children in the wedding party which made it a lot of fun when we introduced them to Party Rock Anthem as they danced into the room.  Thanks again to Christina & Eddie for a night full of fun and dancing.

Every party is a party, though every party isn’t a wedding!

On February 1, 2013 i had the pleasure of DJing a Valentine’s / Mother-son dance at the Betty McElmon elementary school.

Having done the party previously I knew exactly what to expect, rambunctious boys with tons of energy!  We played Coke & Pepsi, Limbo and freeze dance!  In between the games we danced to a few pop songs and engaged in a Gangnam Style dance duel! We also danced to the Electric slide during which i had the boys invite their guest (mom, aunt, or caretaker) to join them on the dance floor.
After interspersing a few more of the audience/line dance songs (Cupid Shuffle etc.), I had the boys line up on one side of the dance floor with their guest opposite them. The boys were given a flower to present to the women and I played a slow song for them to dance to.
Boys being boys, they wanted more upbeat songs! Back to the pop music and breakdancing for a few minutes we went, until i announced the end of the evening!

Nina & James – January 4th, 2013 at the Versailles Ballroom

Here’s the story of Nina (now Thompson) and her husband James!

IMG_0879-EditWow! What a way to begin the new year!  It was January 4th 2013 Nina and her fiancé James arrived at the Versailles Ballroom (of The Ramada in Toms River) overjoyed to be getting married.  And how could they not be? They had Elite Video, Elite Digital Images and Yours Truly as their Elite Entertainer on the scene to create new memories!  Adding to the fun was an Elite Photobooth (and Elite’s purple uplighting surrounded the room).
To open the festivities I played “Don’t Stop The Party” by Pitbull as their recessional (to end the ceremony)! The bridal party and guests danced their way into cocktail hour!
Being a younger crowd, the parents and bridal party then were introduced into their reception to “Let’s Go” by Calvin Harris ft. Ne-Yo! After which i quieted the crowd and dropped “We Found Love” by Rihanna for Nina & James!  Of course the bridal party was into it so we let the song play and they all danced, half filling the floor for a few minutes more!
The first dance (“I Won’t Give Up” by Jason Mraz) and parent dances (“I Loved Her First” by Heartland, and “My Wish” by Rascal Flatts) went wonderfully.
IMG_1022Soon it was party time and the dance floor was packed! There were a few audience songs (Cupid Shuffle and the Wobble), but mostly it was dance/pop music with not much in the way of oldies! There was some latin music as well, “Que Precio Tiene El Cielo” by Marc Anthony (salsa) and “Suavemente” by Elvis Crespo (merengue).
We had to take a little break from dancing so that James could try to shove cake into Nina’s face! There was a jump fest for the bouquet! James did a mock strip tease for the garter and then tossed it to the boys! The garter made its way up another young lady’s leg before it was party time again!
Nina and James, along with family and friends, partied the rest of the night away before they had to say good night and good bye (due to James’ enlistment and subsequent assignment on the west coast)!
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Are Bridal Shows Worth Attending?

I realize the title of this blog is pretty broad based, but as we enter the busy Winter Season in this industry (and by “busy” I mean with couples reserving their services for weddings later in the year or next year) it is most likely a question that will pop into your head.  Bridal Shows take place on week nights (when you’ve probably worked all day long) or during the day on weekends (when, let’s face it, we all cherish our downtime) so while you consider going to a Bridal Show you may also be thinking, “Can’t I just stay home and all see all this stuff online?”

My answer to the main question here is a resounding: “YES! Bridal Shows are worth attending!”  In fact, I’d go one step further and say you owe it to yourself to attend at least one or two throughout the planning of your wedding.

I’ll take it from an entertainment point of view to begin with, since, well, as you can imagine, that’s what we do.  The famous Wedding Planner David Tutera, in a blog he wrote about the importance of music at a wedding, said: “Whether you choose a band, DJ, or a combination of the two for your wedding entertainment, request to see and hear your musicians/emcee in action before signing the contract.”  I happen to think that is excellent advice (not that David Tutera needs my endorsement) but the problem here in New Jersey is that most banquet halls do not allow “pop-in’s” (a pop-in is when a prospective bride and groom “pop-in” to a banquet hall and peak in at someone else’s wedding to check out the entertainment.)  And when I say “problem” it’s not like I disagree with the banquet halls when it comes to this policy.  I happen to think when we are all working for a specific couple that day we should all be focused on that one Wedding and not be thinking about selling to a future couple at the same time.  So when I say “problem” I mean, if you’re going to follow Mr. Tutera’s advice, what are you going to do?

Well, that’s where Bridal Shows or Private DJ Showcases come in.  These are opportunities for you to “see and hear” your wedding entertainment before booking them.  And when it comes to entertainment, nothing beats the live experience.

Video clips are great.  They will often show how packed a DJ or band can get your dance floor, and how eloquent your MC can be.  And we here at Elite Entertainment certainly have our share of videos, not only of each MC but also showing our lighting and other upgrades.  But we all know the reality when it comes to these videos, don’t we?  They are the best of the best and they are edited artfully enough to show “the highlights.”  In other words, be impressed if the videos impress you . . .be intrigued if they are intriguing, but take the next step and ask, “this is great, how can we see you live?”  Because any reputable entertainment company for your wedding will showcase often enough that you should have a myriad of options to “see them live.”  Don’t take “No” for an answer.

So that’s the entertainment answer but I’d also like to expand on this, if I may.  Let’s say you have entertainment booked already.  Is it still worth attending a Bridal Show?  Can’t you see a photographer’s “portfolio” online?  Or examples of a videographer’s work on their Youtube or Vimeo channel?  What’s the difference if you see a wedding gown in the bridal shop or on a model at a show?  And a limos a limo right?  Well, yeah sure, but in my experience, the vendors who attend shows are often (notice I said “often” and not “always”) the more professional vendors.  They are usually professionals who do this full-time and who understand part of running a successful business, no matter how many word-of-mouth referrals they may get, is getting out and meeting new prospective clients.  And (and this may just be me and my old-school thinking) nothing can replace a face-to-face impression.  I would much rather meet someone, shake their hand and look them in the eye, and then find out about their work.  I would rather speak to someone in person than on the phone (even if it’s a video chat.)  And I would much rather go where professionals are looking for me, rather than trusting a Google search.

So as you think about planning your wedding, and you wonder where oh where are you going to find the right entertainment, photographer, florist etc etc etc, I urge you to attend a bridal show (or two or three).  Besides researching companies to hire, they can also be fun evenings (or afternoons) to spend with your Maid of Honor or Mom (who are probably dieing to help you with the plans.)  Plus, most bridal shows have some kind of door prizes so you may even leave a winner.  Who knows.  And if you don’t think it was all worth it, please, don’t blame me.  Blame David Tutera.

The Mill & Elite give back…

On October 29, 2012 the tristate area was absolutely devastated by hurricane Sandy.  This will forever be remembered for the destruction it brought to our beloved Jersey Shore and the many families who are left without homes, with a long road ahead to recovery.  It can be hard to find the good in something so bad, but here it was so easy to see.  Communities across the state came together in every possible way to help their neighbors in this extremely difficult time.  Donald, from The Mill in Spring Lake is one of those citizens doing everything he can.  He runs operations at the Mill, a popular venue for weddings and other parties.  Donald had a Saturday night on December 1 that was open and he decided to make use of the night in the best way possible.  He gathered up volunteers from all over and put together a night to remember for all of those that have lost their homes from the storm.  He was able to get approximately 15 volunteers to help set tables, serve food, and clean up at the end of the night.  He had several employees that stayed to work double shifts, but working that second shift on their own time to help out as well.  In the end, he also had over 240 guests that would be showing up to party and, if just for four hours, forget about the tragic events of the storm.  The last piece of the puzzle was of course the entertainment.  Donald decided to make a call to Mike, owner of Elite Entertainment, and ask if he had anyone willing and available to donate their time for the party.  When Mike made the announcement, I jumped at the opportunity to do what I can to make this party happen.

The night of the party I showed up about an hour and a half early to get setup and get an idea of how the night will go.  It was then I learned just how much Donald had in store for the guests of this beautiful holiday party.  First, they had over 60 prizes to give away in a Chinese auction which they handed out five tickets per guest to spread out as they wished among the gifts.  Included was everything from scarfs, blankets, and pillows to lamps, dishes, and jewelery.  All a great start to get people started on replenishing what they lost.  On top of all those prizes, there were also many more gifts for children that were being given away as well.  But instead of a Chinese auction, this was much more exciting for the children.  I was instructed to put on the song “Santa Claus is Coming To Town” and get the crowd amped up for the arrival of the big man in red.  Santa himself showed up and all the children in the room had a chance to sit on his lap to tell him what they wanted for Christmas and then also walk away with a gift right then.  It was an amazing site to see the smiles on the kids faces as they got to see some real Christmas magic that night.

While all the gifts were great, we still had plenty of entertainment for the guests to enjoy as well.  Besides have me DJ the party, there were also five live performances spread throughout dinner time.  The live portion of the show was kicked off by a girl named Rachel who was performing in public for just the second time.  Listening to her sing and play guitar you would think she had been doing this for years.  She performed a song she had written herself about the storm and sounded fantastic, the crowd agreed.  Following Rachel was her friend Emily who took over the guitar and sang just as beautifully as her friend, again pleasing the crowd, bringing absolute joy to everyone in the room.  The next two performances were from Jennifer and Michael who gave me background music to play for each of them and sang Broadway style songs.  Both of which again had just incredible voices along with some nice dancing during breaks to really make them a joy to watch.

   For the last performance, Jennifer and Michael teamed up to do a duet of “Rockin Around the Christmas Tree“.  This was a very upbeat number and I knew would be a great way to team up with Jen and Mike to open the dance floor in a very different way then your standard party.  I had them start inviting people up throughout their performance and then kicked the party right into gear with “Runaround Sue“.  No one hesitated to get up and dance the rest of the night away as I took them through the decades from the 50′s up to the 80′s.  I also broke up fast paced high energy dance sets with a couple beautiful slow dances for the lovely couples.

   In the end this will always be a night that everyone in the room, especially me, will never forget.  It felt absolutely amazing to be able to donate my time to such a worthy cause and to be able to make so many people, over 240, so happy for that four hours after all they had been through.  While I know this was simply one night to help forget about what has happened, I know the power of fun and laughter when going through such a tough time.  And when you combine all the talents and volunteers that we had that night, all gathered for the sole purpose of being happy without the distractions of business and how much this and that costs, you are guaranteed to have a great night that will never be forgotten.

We Won the Year End Awards Again!

The 2 main web sites for the wedding industry (The Knot and Wedding Wire) have been announcing annual awards for quite some time now.  When they first started, we were pretty thrilled to make the lists as it seemed a very exclusive acknowledgement.  As time has gone on it seems more and more vendors make the cut every year.  The cynic might say that’s because these sites have figured out a way to monetize these awards and so the more companies who win them the more profit involved.  Of course, we’re not cynics, so we’ll just chalk it up to the ever-increasing popularity of the internet.

That being said, we were named to both “Best of” lists once again this year:

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The awards are great and even if they’ve become less exclusive through the years here’s one thing we can say (that not everyone else can):

The Knot has given their award out for seven straight years (since 2007).  We’ve been named “Best of Weddings” for all seven.

Wedding Wire has given their award out since 2009 and we’ve been named a “Bride’s Choice” for all five years.

That’s a perfect twelve for twelve if you’re keeping score at home.

Since both of these recognitions come from actual brides (and probably some grooms too) who rate their wedding vendors on these sites thus supplying them with the data to make these “best of” lists, we can only thank our wonderful clients for all the great things they have to say about us.  It is always our pleasure to entertain for the couples who put their ultimate faith in our service and the way we look at these awards is just simply all of our hard work paying off.  So thank you to our past brides and grooms and to everyone getting married in 2013 (and beyond) you have our promise that we’ll continue the excellent service that we’ve become known for.

After all, we wouldn’t want these streaks to end, now would we?

Two Teachers Say “I Do!”

Is there anything cooler than two teachers being introduced into their wedding reception to the thunderous drum roll of “Hot For Teacher?”  On Saturday, November 17th I had the honor of pulling that feat off.  And as Ben and Mary’s guests went nuts while they walked in (with David Lee Roth screaming “got it bad got it bad got it bad”) I knew this was going to be a special night.

Ben and Mary were a fun couple to work with.  They picked out a handful of songs and each and every one of them were good, solid dance floor fillers.  And the songs matched my goal of providing a good mix of music with older songs like “Build Me Up Buttercup” and “Sweet Caroline” to eighties hits like “Shook Me All Night Long” and of course Bon Jovi’s “Living On a Prayer” and some newer dance songs like  “We Found Love” and “Dynamite.”  Ben and Mary’s family and friends were receptive to everything and the dance floor was filled all night.

The wedding was in The Crystal Ballroom at the Radisson in Freehold and this was my first time working there since they installed lighting in their ceiling panels.  What a difference that makes!  This room that was already pretty cool now comes alive once they light that up and start using the effects.  I loved it.  Plus I got to finally work with a photographer from Abella Studios.  I’ve followed Abella on Twitter   for a while now and they are very entertaining.  They also blog after their weddings so I’m looking forward to seeing the images they put up.

Mary was nice enough to leave me this very complimentary Wedding Wire review.

When I read it I was very happy to see she mentioned that I get to know my clients and make them feel special and would do anything to make their day perfect.  I think if you could sum up everything that my career has been about, that would hit the nail on the head.  Thanks Mary for that awesome review!  I wish you and Ben the very best in your new life together as husband and wife!

Rolling with the punches…

Who:

            Brooke & Chris

What:

            Cocktail Hour & Wedding Reception

Where:

            Raven and the Peach, Fair Haven, NJ

When:

            Friday, November 9, 2012

Why:

            Why I loved DJing this Event……

  • This was my first wedding after the storm (others had been postponed), so I was eager to help people have a good time and forget at least for a few hours about the issues everyone was having.
  • Brooke & Chris had to change venues due to flooding in their original Banquet Hall, but they were able to keep the date, notify all their guests, and make the Wedding a success.
  • All the guests were ready to have fun, and showed up ready to eat, drink, dance, and be merry.
  • As the pictures show, Brooke & Chris personalized the Banquet room, with pictures, plaques, and other great decorations to bring the room to life for their Wedding.
  • The dance floor stayed packed all night and everyone enjoyed themselves to the fullest.